This goes double for when they’re on the bus, the subway or the train.A woman reading or listening to her headphones is making a determined effort to shut the world out until it’s time for her to get off at her stop.But just as important as it is to be willing to approach women you don’t know, it’s important to know when you approached.
well, now she can expect to see him make the first move; the last thing you want to do is cause the woman of your dreams to associate you with other mass transit creepers.
Also: remember what I said about the “do not disturb” signs?
For example: one of the most obvious non-verbal signs that a woman wants to be left alone is that she’ll refuse to make eye-contact.
Locking eyes is one of the classic approach invitations, so she’ll go out of her way to not meet .
All anyone on the Muni, the e L, the Yamanote line, the Underground, or any other form of mass transit wants to do is get through their commute with as minimal irritation as possible. In fact, for many women, mass transit is less of a convenient and economical way of getting from place to place and more of a gauntlet of horror, frustration and harassment that they must run on a daily basis… Almost every woman who’s ever had to take the bus or the subway or the train has had an experience of being harassed – ranging from guys who see nothing wrong with demanding a response from women who clearly want to be left alone to the incredibly dangerous.
This is the background radiation of her commute – never knowing if the guy who sits next to her or around her is going to just be annoying or if he’s going to jerk off in front of her.Anyone who reads my site for long enough knows I’m a big proponent of the cold approach.Learning how to approach women, strike up a conversation and charming them into being interested in going on a date with you is a difficult – but important – skill to master.Other “do not disturb” signs include when she’s reading, writing or working on her laptop.If she’s in a public place – a cafe, a Starbucks, what-have-you – and she’s reading or on her laptop, then the odds are that she’s there because she , not to flirt.but trying when it comes to the age-old question of “Does she “Flirting For Dollars”.