Third, I felt like the daughter was stealing all his weekends.Fourth, whenever he talked about his daughter, I just couldn't get enthused because she wasn't mine.
If *I* ever got pregnant with his child I felt that I would be left in the cold with no protection because he'd be too busy protecting his daughter. This is from another guy's (I am divorced dad of three kids and have seen some issues with non kidded women) perspective but it might apply to you: Kids: 1. Hey it may have been a bad decision or a mistake, but you have to realize (and she does too) that there was something there at one time.
If a man is going to dote that kind of attention on a kid, the child would better be mine OR a chlid that we decided to adopt together. You need to know, and truly understand that they will come FIRST. They have lost their dad (in a sense) and there is no sense in building a relationship with the kids only to shooth them down if it does not work. A lot of women will say, oh I never loved him, he was wrong from the start. Someone changed and it did not work out, but to deny that there was something there is pure bull****! __________________ Seahorse Seahorses may communicate by sound.
Life, in some ways, becomes simpler with less distraction.
In all the history of the world, there have been many children born to mothers who had to raise them alone because their partner wasn’t present to help.
Choosing to have a child does not require two parents. What could be better than to be raised by a mother intent on being a parent?
Someone who actually wanted, planned, and looked forward to the day when she has a child. Being a single mother by choice does have its pros and cons.
Lots of these children grew up to be successful and compassionate.
Let’s name a few of them: Angelina Jolie, Barack Obama, George Washington, Jet Li, Jodie Foster, Mariah Carey, Samuel Jackson, and Thomas Jefferson. In the end, being a single parent is a choice made with love.
Single mothers, no matter how carefully they plan ahead, may find that having a child affects their career plans. A child with special needs can make it hard for a single mother to maintain employment. Whether she is your own biological baby or an older son you’ve adopted, this is what you desired to do. Your child will be assured that he or she is wanted very much. Some women find that they have better romantic relationships because the pressure is off to have children.
When your child is old enough, he or she may want to know who their father is. They can see how a potential partner interacts with the child before they commit.
As a single parent you’ll want the help of friends and family because that network makes life so much easier for you.