But what happens in her body, is that she is starting to feel more and more sexual. And that is the beauty of design of the female mind and body. Did you know that 80% of the sexual partners a woman had in her lifetime, she didn’t choose/she wasn’t sexually attracted to when they first met. We guys can’t have sex with a girl that does not turn us on. This is one of my favorite things to do in loud clubs, because it’s a perfect excuse to get closer to her ear and neck.It becomes socially acceptable to be close to her, have a hand around her wrist (lower back) and touch hair, neck, ears…
I have found a really easy way how to get them horny and how to turn them on. The first thing you have to do is to start touching her non-sexual zones. The whole point of you doing this is so she gets used to being comfortable with your touch. This is a crucial step before it gets more sexual and we move on to the core of how to turn a girl on.
We all know that in order to seduce a woman, you have to seduce her mind and body separately. On the other side if you turn her body on, but she doesn’t like you mentally, again you achieve nothing. The only way you can truly seduce a woman effectively, get her turned on and have sex is if you turn on her mind and body together at the same time. See this step as a “foundation” on which you will base your “let’s get her turned on”.
The conversation should go smooth, this is, again, the foundation. With years of testing this, I found that there is a difference between whispering to the left or to the right ear.
On top of that foundation, every few minutes you should whisper something sexual to her ear. “We are talking about music, but I have to tell you, you have such a nice legs, they are so driving me crazy” and then you go back to conversation, and continue talking like nothing happened. “You have such a nice high heels, I really like them… but these heels, they would stay on” and then shift back to your normal conversation. You are playing with her left and right brain hemisphere (both logic and emotions are engaged). And I found that whispering to the left ear produces more intense and sexual emotions in her mind.
To make it look normal and natural do this: keep eye contact and occupy her mind with a story, jokes, conversation. This way her mind won’t process it, but the body will get used to it. You have to do this only the first few times to get it going.
The more you progress and the more she is turned on, the less you will have to hide it.
My hand just slides from upper back to lower back and I move it around the body. Yellow zones are a bridge from non-sexual to sexual.
It’s never a constant touch, but you talk, remove your arm, then place it again, then drop it, then spin her around, touch her hips… It’s something totally normal as you talk with her. You can literally be able to seduce and turn on any girl out there. Do not hurry, play with her hips, smell her neck, whisper to her ear, blow warm air around her ear as you talk to her.
In order not to ring her alarm bells again, slow down and take care of logistics. Some girls have no moral and social norms and they will be OK with it (rebels), but the majority of girls won’t feel comfortable being too sexual in front of other people. As a dating coach, I have seen many seduction attempts fall apart because of this.