I was more of a player when I had no stable ground in my own life. At 29, I rather settle down with one person and try and work on a lifelong relationship, than juggle multiple sexual partners, where I feel no love at all. At one time, I was immature and it was all about me, me, me. Yeah, I've crossed paths with one who didn't mind spreading his seed- no I didn't let him have a chance at that with me.
The Shallow Man has even started a counselling group called ‘Dutch women survivors’ for expat men who have been shot down in flames when attempting to approach Dutch women.
My group also helps men who were in failed relationships with the most unapproachable women in Europe.
Impress your Dutch lady by waving your almost full book of stamps in her face, she’ll be like krentenbollen in your hands, and hopefully not as greasy.
If you value your life, never, ever, get the idea in your head to ask your Dutch partner to cook for you. A lot of Dutch women, just like their British counterparts believe that critical processes in preparing a meal involve a microwave, or a dangerous driving scooter rider to execute the delivery of the dish.
Think of Homer’s odyssey (not Simpson), Dr Richard Kimble’s quest to find the one armed man in the Fugitive, or attempting to join the SAS.
These are all childs play when compared with finding and keeping a Dutch woman.What you need to know is that as an expat, if you stand your ground in face of the ugg booted onslaught, that Dutch women will forgive you and may even find your self-confidence attractive.From Dutch men they expect total acquiescence, and the ability to follow orders.If, as is highly likely you’re not paying attention, and she says “Who does Anouk think she is wearing such tight jeans, I think they were too tight.” Don’t whatever you do, agree with her, or make a comment such as, “yes her butt looks as if it’s attempting to stage a prison break from her jeans.” This will only earn you comments such as “What!!! Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Because it needs to come from them and when they want to settle downperiod I have been on dating sites that have dealt with several types 1. Never settled down, did not see the reason too.were going to enjoy this world of women to the fullest, and I am talking about men in their 60s , really? Have kids from several womenthey seem to always have a reason as to why it did not work, she cheated, they cheated too but after they didthey stay single but have no issues with their kids being around random women and wanting to wife them yet never do? They cannot seem to find the right woman to settle them down.. Never get into a loving relationship with man that feels his life and importance is more important than yours.. in their eyes the "player" is faithful, but when the cat's away, the mouse will play. It amazes me when I hear of players talking about having a child.Silly me in the morning has come to my senses and I see that if you know a man to be like this, he has to show you over time that you are the exception to his rule before you give him a chance.