Being a divorced person for six years, I think I can paint a pretty accurate picture of some of the typical traits I see in divorced men. Of course, I realize every man is unique, but these are just some features that I notice a lot. And they don't want to feel obligated to do anything!
No guy wants a girl who is constantly telling him what he can and can't do, badgering him about the things he does wrong and the bad habits he has. On the other hand, they don't want to be smothered.
They've most likely had a lack of those things for awhile. Divorced guys don't get scared as much as they did before marriage. On the other hand, if you start calling him your soul mate, start texting him every five seconds, and talk about the details of your future wedding, he will run.
"I've seen it happen to too many of my friends," says Elliot, 29.
"All they do is bitch about how the sex takes a total nosedive after they get serious with a girl.
There is nothing sexier to a man than a girl who loves her career, who has a passion for her work, and who goes to her job everyday with enthusiasm.
The Timing Is Off Chances are, you've had at least one breakup that left you wondering, "What the hell just happened? Men get serious with whomever we happen to be dating when we're finally ready to settle down. The guy recently got out of a long term relationship (his marriage.) He doesn't need a girlfriend who he has to call every two minutes, or who he feels obligated to go out with every Saturday night. Be the girl who takes him to cool restaurants, who suggests an interesting museum, who makes him watch one of your favorite movies he's never seen. Help him remember that relationships are fun and enriching. If there's a possibility of upgrading what we already have for something better (that'll make our friends drool), we say, bring it on!So we wind up always wondering if you're really as good as it gets. Chances are, when your guy was married, his wife wasn't very nice to him. Whatever the situation was, at the end of the marriage, she was most likely anything but sugary sweet.