Posted by Quentin Witt in Black Love Advice I have been waiting to write this article for a long time.
I have seen a lot of women taken advantage of by losers who wanted nothing more but to drive their cars, live in their homes and not contribute a damn thing, and use them for their money…
A man who isn’t contributing financially is a handicap, as one young single mother says in “What was his purpose?
I am fortunate to have a wonderful longtime partner (who, as an educator, knows all about small salaries), but I sometimes wonder what would happen if I lost my job and was looking for love — would I be marriage material (assuming I even wanted to marry again, that is, which I don’t), or even dateable? ); by virtue of my gender alone, yes — I would probably be viable relationship material.
But if I were an unemployed man — regardless of age — would the same rules apply?
(6 signs that he’s using you for your money) [Is he using me for money?
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I still don’t equate it to whether I am happy or not (and never will), although I acknowledge money certainly makes things easier.
I never made a lot of money in my career — newspaper journalism — but that didn’t stop men from dating me, or two men from marrying me.What I’m talking about is a man that’s unemployed, doesn’t have money, or seems always to lose his job when he gets one but appears to be happy with his current situation.If you notice that your boyfriend doesn’t seem to be embarrassed or a little shy about asking you to borrow money or carry the weight of paying all of the expenses in the home you share then he’s probably okay with the way things are.If you’re reading this article, I encourage you to pass it along to your friends on Facebook and Twitter to help me get this message out to as many women as possible.So without further ado, here are 6 signs that a guy is using you.As a child, it hurt me so bad to watch my mother be treated so horribly by my stepfather.