And the last thing ya want to do ( I am assuming) is to put her and your self in harms way of catching an STD. Coming to terms with this can be a difficult process, but you'll find this to be a supportive place. You'll always be what you always were, which has nothing to do with- all to do with- her" -from "Sorry-Grateful" from the musical "Company" by Stephen Sondheim Hey guys, loving these stories - oh how familiar! All the best..Ian, you're in the UK I think, me too. i have wanted this for so long I have had bi urges off and on for years, but now that I'm in my 40's, they've gotten strong. It's great to hear this is somewhat normal (I'm not alone!So talk with her tell her your desires and find a safe and sane (that can be the hard part) partner. And listen to what exnavyguy said in his post above- Those of us who are married and bi walk a slippery slope, and it's best to be open and honest with our wives. There seem to be a ton of ways to get to meet guy men for sex and while that may be great, it seems harder to do what I'd like to do which is to meet men in my situation..are living lives as straight men, and who want to explore their gay side, probabaly for the first time or first few times. ) Exnavy & Timmy - I give you both a ton of credit for talking directly to your wives about this.
So one tricky thing has been not overwhelming her with talk about it though - I have to make a very conscious effort to talk about other stuff too, as it's all very new at the moment and I have it on the brain big time.
And she needs and has friends to talk about it that aren't me.
After I got out of the shower he came over and started talking to me while he was drying off.
I was great seeing him dry off..lifted his legs and was drying his legs on the bench while his cock and balls were just hanging out.
*panic attack* My story sounds a lot like y'alls, and I can tell you how *not* to tell your wife: 6 a.m.
on a workday when you've been up all night freaking out because the dam broke and you finally realized it, before she is really all the way awake.
i have wanted this for so long i am the same fella. Hairy but keep it trimmed and keep fit by going to the gym but lately i am getting so turned on by the sight of naked guys in the showers that i have stopped having a shower because i can't hide my aroused state while naked .
Ian It can get interesting when you're at the gym locker room and find yourself getting hard.
As far as being turned on by guys, we all understand Thing is can you talk with your wife? never been with a man but i have been having amazing urges lately. extremely interested in the bottom position for sex.